Your Book His Life offers essential guidance for young Black men and their families, fostering growth and understanding in crucial life areas.
Welcome to Your Book His Life!
Welcome. Thank you for purchasing this book. I know you’re looking for something — perhaps the solution to a problem or a different perspective that teaches you something new.
My goal for Your Book His Life is that you just don’t read it, but you use it.
Your Book His Life is a textbook that is a handbook for young Black males 6 years of age to 25 years and beyond. Its content is based on my experiences which I have poured into these chapters to provide you with actionable steps, not just theory. However, YBHL primarily serves as a reference book for single mothers who are ready for a new approach to developing their sons into strong responsible Black men.
My ultimate objective is to assist you through their parenting journey.
Parents should be able to convince their sons that success is attitude and effort. We are requesting that they allow us to help lead them to accomplishment while impressing upon them that they are safe, valued and cared for.
Those who have taken on the challenge of developing a young Black man in this society must realize that they have been marginalized and their self -image has been deformed. If anything, I would like to create a comfortable level of relatability between the mother, her son and understanding this textbook.
Take what serves you and leave what doesn’t
LET’S GET STARTED!
Nile Muhammad (Hawkins)
Solutions! Solutions! Solutions!
It’s an outdated school of thought … a son doing what his mother tells him just because she’s his mother. Between social media, TV and peer pressure – good luck with that.
YBHL is your study guide. You don’t have to be a perfect parent, only a good one and a functional one .
YBHL – will show you how!
• Rehabilitate your relationship with your son
• Stop the emotional “roller coaster” with your son
• Real solutions to changing your relationship with your son
• YBHL will help you help him select what he puts into it — his experiences will reflect the content of his brain
• Your son can be the man you want him to be.
• Your son could be the man he needs to be.
TRUTH
REALITY
REAL TALK
Young Black males are under siege
It is clear young Black males are being systematically destroyed
Black parents have to atone for what we allowed to happen on our watch
Young Black men have not failed to learn … teachers have failed to learn to teach
Textbook Features
No long, boring chapters like other books
Broken down into small skills, small tips that are straight to the point
Go to any page and learn something useful instead of just “scrolling on the phone”
For instance …
• 6 “cornbread” simple tips for parenting a boy
• 10 things he should know before the age of 9
• 10 ways to teach him about how to speak about molestation
Discover and learn the tools to change your relationship
YBHL goes back to the basics from age 6 to adult so he can deal with the complexity of his future
What readers say
Help With Life
This book helped me help my grandson with his life. Thank you so much!
Mrs. R. F.
I Didn’t Know
I thank God for you giving me all of this good information to bring into my child’s life. I’m impressed. I didn’t know a lot of this.
Ms. B. D.
Improvement
Since I shared this book with both my children, they have both improved greatly. We talk about more things much more.
Ms. C.H.